My ever growing collection of recipes. Photo by Jonathan Canlas.
Like all my turkey dinners for the last six years, I have celebrated Thanksgiving with my sisters. It’s become an unofficial tradition. Six years ago today, my mom passed away and the very next day (just like this year) was Thanksgiving.
It’s a little overwhelming to think how different my life was six years ago and how much has changed. I am a mother (of three!) now. My sisters are all married. We have our own families. There are nieces and nephews. In-laws and new babies. Six years ago today our family got smaller, but today we are infinitely bigger.
I am not only grateful for the good food that comes along with tomorrow, but the opportunity to gather together once again with loved ones. To be seated next to the people that matter most to me in this life and to enjoy the happiness of their company. Mom may not be with us physically, but when I see my sisters — with their faces that mirror hers — I see my mother. I see my children and their eyes sparkle just like moms. They flash smiles that crinkle the same. This year, with the addition of our new baby boy, there will be one more person to lovingly remind us of our loved one. My baby smirks like his grandma. He reflects life and joy in his every movement, and his grandmother’s influence is definitely with him.
Who knows? Maybe next Thanksgiving, we will be surrounded by even more love.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours.
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Veeda, I love your beautiful post, but it makes me sad, too. I am so sorry for the loss of your mother at this “thankful” time of year. I can only imagine how difficult it must be. Congrats on making the best of the situation and honoring her through family, recipes and traditions. I applaud you. You are amazing. Love, Jodi Orgill Brown
Thanks Jodi, I think you’re pretty awesome too.
i love you vee
so sweet. happy holidays!
Such a sweet post!
It’s nice hearing from you, Veeda! I love your posts. Glad you had a nice thanksgiving.